What if you don’t have to fix anything?
Now there’s an idea. You don’t have to fix yourself.
What if everything you need to feel fulfilled, okay, and happy is already present?
I’m playing with a new and — to me — revolutionary idea. Those coping mechanisms, defenses, and beliefs that you built to guard and protect you when you were small end up as a cumbersome suit of armor, but the dangers they were designed to prevent probably aren’t present today. You’re left clanking around hauling a bag of stinking thinking that informs the way you see every moment of your beautiful and messy life as it is today.
Your wholehearted seeking and desire for wholeness leads you into one idea or program after another that offers to teach you how to replace those stinking thoughts with better, more positive, and more useful ones. [Read more…]